Monday, January 21, 2008

one more post about love

kids in general believe they are in love multiple times. of course that kind of love is different than the love that adults will have for each other. the kind of love a married couple has. but at this age, thats not the kind of love we should be feeling. the kind of love we should be feeling is obviously different for each person. but the basic idea is that you want to spend time with each other. you love each other's company. you see that their personality is one that goes well with your own. love for someone who will help you grow as a person, just as you will help them grow. you will make an impact in each other's lives. but its not true, deep, everlasting love. sometimes we kid ourselves about that. but that doesnt mean its not worth trying. it doesnt mean that at all. it means that we should make the most of it. live life to the fullest. and enjoy it while it lasts. because these years only last so long. and if love makes life more bearable, then there is no reason why you shouldnt stick with it. even if you know its not the deepest kind of love. make the most of it. love life. enjoy it. and when it ends, it ends. but you will both have grown from the experience. and you will never forget each other. and thats why we love. to enjoy. to live. to remember. to grow.